Sorry Vero-chan ! I know! I hope that in the week -end you will go somewhere and
have lots of fun and rest! NO! Promise my that you will DO that!
Bye! Kisses!
Hello! How is everyone? Ohhh geez there is no one here! Were is everybody?
I guess they are of to the beach or pool! ^_^ is sooo hot these days that you
can fry an egg on someones bald head ^_~
Ey, that's it ! Bye, Kisses!
I'm glad,inochikyo,that your friend decided so
lol,that manga is about sex. It's about how and what,it's not hentai, it's more
like instruction and suggestions to the sex life. And it have many interesant
facts inside. For sure it's better than what they teach you in the school,or
asking parents hehe
inochikyo I am happy she changed her mind.Your words are indeed true she would
have felt dirty and got to hate herself if she did soemthing like that!
And you know what in reality peopel get to suffer more in their life then being
happy and when you find happiness well you have to fight to keep it!
Wish her good luck and the best!
Hugs!
AH, Thanks for the advice! *hugs to all* ^__^ I told my friend something like
that to. And just to let you know, she decided not to bring the subject up,
because she wants to wait until after marriage or if she's dating a guy for at
least 2 years and she really loves him! So, this is great, that she's given up
the idea, cause it's not right, and I know is she went through with it, she
would hate herself so much and would feel really dirty. But she'll be Ok, she'll
make it through. I guess she was just thinking she should because she's trying
to mend her broken heart. But I can feel she'll be just fine, Thanks again for
the advice. It's tough on her right now and she's hurting lots but she'll make
it through, no matter what life brings, you always do. ^___^ (hmm..maybe I
should read that manga..)
Ohh I know what you mean about parents annoying us.My dad is home,on holiday so
he is so annoying.He bothers me everytime,he is liek haunting me.Use the bike a
little more,make osme exercises,don't stay at the computer you'll get sick and
so on.You know I like it when they have the oportunity to relax and they have
some free tiem but when they have too much it gets annoying for me.
Hmm is it good that manga^_^?
New wall,uhh I can't wait to see it!And also what can I say we seem to think the
same...I am glad that you agree with me concerning inochikyo's friend
problem!
Huglles!
I totally agree with Mira-chan. Your friend really shouldn't do sex with a guy,
she doesn't love,and he wants to use her,so he will not look lame in the eyes of
his girlfriend.Hmm,maybe she should read the manga Futari Ecchi, it's about sex
and when two virgins have sex at first time,it don't turn out well...I think man
can't learn too much from it too...Oh,well,it's my opinion ^^'.
Hi How are you?
So sadly I didn't get that job,but I'm not upset,I will try more...
Now I'm working on my wallie, editing, and playing RPG
If my mother wouldn't bother me so much,it would be ideal summer *sigh*
emily85 hey there sweety^_^!Nice to meet you I am Mira-chan^_^!I feel that you
are totally right being sad isn't productive at all^_^!You have a healthy way of
thinking!
Simo-chan I already miss you!i am expecting for oyu!And well don't be to shy no
one will bite here.About Di well she ins't in this group but I will say hello to
her from your part too^_^!Hugs!
inochikyo now sweety you are joking right!?I mean what strange idea.Well I will
probably tell her something like this "you haven't even kissed and you are
thinking of sex!That is a very strange way of thinking,really!I really don't
want to seem harsh but get a grip on yourself.How can you speak about sex like a
typical issue my dear?Because of people that speak of sex that way there are
today so many children without parents,so many abortions,so many deseases.
And most of all sex is a total different thing from love.Think at the
consequences before you act!Not only pregnecy is the problem here but other
things too.
And really at your age 15 don't you think that you are still too little for
that.Starting your sexual life when your body isn't fully developped(all tough
it seems) it may affect it also and not only that but also it will affect you
psichologically speaking!
So make the diffrence between sex and making love....there is a great
differnece.You know I am sick and tired of hearing everyone speaking of sex and
making love like they have the same meaning.Sex you can do it with whomever you
please,feelings and romance and other things aren't important,it is something
made because of instincts,that makes us seem more like animals.Making love
implies feelings and romance etc.And also you don't do sex just for
curiosity!You are speaking of a serious thing like it was nothing,like you are
going for your usual walk in the morning.
And also you are a virgin and making sex with another virgin isn't also to
good.I mean you'd better look for a more experienced guy that knows how to
handlethings in this situation!
Well you know where I heard the idea "You don't do sex just for
curiosity" at a guy!Even guys think,altough they don't show it,that it is
much better when feelings are included and that is.Irrational girls that start
their love life like that(so to say) they get to be considered easy girls(not to
say other words).Guys usually like to struggle a little for the girls they like
and not to have them drooling over them so easy,they also need their space.As
for your friend there are so many women that can teach him everything with some
money but it would also be better for him to be honest with his girl and to
leave everything in the hands of their feelings!You know when 2 persons love
each other things can get solved step by step.So all this hurry is simply just
stupid.Ohh and I also forgot to say that you don't do sex also because your
friends already did that!By the way girls that start their love life so
early,before they mature get to become older earlier than others.Really I know
girls of 17years that started their sexual life earlier and they look older than
a woman of 25 years not to mention that their bodies get to look different
too!
Well it is your life!But what makes you think that it will work being with the
one that is your friend....even your relation will definately change.Friends
don't have sex with each other just like that!How would you feel seeing his
girlfriend after that and knowing that you were with him!Sex isn't something
that you plan!When you love someone it just happens to want more and so all
comes like normal but now you aren't speaking about normal things.
Making love for the first time it is supposed in every girl's dream,to be
something beautiful with the person they love and not with the first one who
comes.
By the way when you say "I have just one life" you should take better
care of it.Why are to hurry so much(hurrying too much will make things
worse)!And by the way there is plenty of time to experience love/sex !Stop
thinking at stupid things if you ar thinking at your own good.And self-esteem
and pride are also important don't let a guy trat you like an object or
something!
.So don't act irrational and don't ruin your friendship with this guy!
I think the others girls around will agree with me and even guys if you ask they
will agree!"
That was what I would for sure say to my friend.Hmm if one of my bestfriends
would have also come with a problem like this I think I would have beat
them,seriously!Well I hope your friend will get into her senses.By the wya I
haven't fully understood what you were speaking...about one of your friends who
has a friend that asked her that?Well I hope my message helps!
hey yall, how yall doing? ^__^ Came by, cuz my friends friend has a little
problem and I want to see what advice you gals can give her! This is what she
said..in an email
My male friend asked me to have sex with him but he has a gf, he says he wants
to learn how to have sex so he'll know how to when the time come to actually
have sex with the girl he loves and I want to know too, but I didnt tell him
yes, that I would, I told him he might get me pregnant. I want to bring the
subject up again and yes lets have sex but I dont want him to use me to learn
and I want to lose my virginity to someone I love, the only good thing, is that
we're friends, so if we have sex, it wouldnt affect us much, what should I do, a
part of me says yes, have sex, you only live once, take some risks, but then
again I dont want to,please help, if this is relevant somehow, he's 17 and Im
15, and I've never had a bf or even been kissed.
Hello everyone! Vero-chan congrats,if you have found a summer job! Good work!
Mira, I'm sorry for not saying Hello,I'm really bbiiiiiiiiiiippppp. Sorry! Not
gonna happned again! Mira i want to come and see you but i don't know when,I'm
really bUssy, I will phone you and tell when!
I don't know if Diana-chan is here but if she is- Hello, How are you?
Girls, i have to go, Kisses! Hugs
mmm, question of the week, eh? based on personal experience, i try not to focus
on my hurt coz whenever i think about it, i just feel self-pity. i dont want
that, so i would spend most of my time doing stuff i like: hanging out with
friends (slumber party, trying out new restaurants), watching anime &
movies, reading, drawing, etc. i do think & reflect about it sometimes, but
i try not to blame myself or anyone for what had happened. negative thoughts are
so...unproductive, coz in the end, being negative would never allow me to
achieve anything.
krys07 hey there!Thank you sweety!Well what can I say it really was one one of
the best...and I succeeded for the first tiem in my life,I guess,not to get
sick!When I was little,you know how kids are eat like everything,I kinda
poisened myself so I had some problems with eating because of that...I mean I
like eating but some food made me sick!Ah but now it is Ok!
Gii it seems so quiet at this hour!
Well in a few words it was a very nice trip...full of adventures...ahh it is
kinda hard to find my words but I will try little by little in telling you the
details^_^!
How about you?Any plans?
Hugs!See ya soon!
Ohh my Vero-chin I definately have to leave you a message!I missed you so
much....okay I actually missed everyone!
Hmm still looking for a job or did you already find it...gambatene...my
sweety!
Gomene minas for being really off the subject but you can imagine that missing
about 2 weeks I really have so much to read and it is kinda tiring for the eyes
so I will better ask you what is the topic these days^_^?
I had a great time on my trip by the way!Hugs!I'll coem back later!
*KaoriHime ~ no holidae for you too.. ;___; and you found a job.. wow..
congrats.. so what will you be doing then? ^^
*krys07 ~ yeah.. yeah.. i'll try have a small break for myself.. provided i can
do that.. and the fact is.. is... is.. i cant do it.. ;__; work doesn't allow me
to do that..
*lacusxxclyne ~ your quest is hard...
but i think that life still need to carry on.. i'm also sure that we will go
thru' alot of pain before we can start to really start thinking.. but all i
wanna say is that you should stop thinking of the past and start ur new life..
i'm sure that the slected guy in your life will comr to you.. it is just a
matter of time.. ^^ so to all gers here.. ayane wishes all of you for a sweet
and romantic romance.. <333
Hello ! How are you? Hy Vero-chan! I will try to give a answer to this week's
question. Very carefully^_^, i'm kidding. Just trying to give a bit of
joy,optimism because the question is in my opinion is very serious. I really
don't know, you just have to move , this is life. The good, happy moments spent
with him will always be in your memory. And that is why you have to move on,
because of the happy moments. LIfe is short !
well it's just my point of view..but i'm sure there are other solutions for that
problem..
anyway, kaori-chan, i'm sure they'll accept you in that job!
hmm...a hard question...and i'm not pretty good at this...but this is my
view,...
well, i think you must try your best not to think about the thing that broke
your heart into pieces even if it's hard...i know it's hard but ithink that's
the best way to do it...and also, maybe if you find a new inspiration, maybe it
will lessen the pain that caused your heart to go like that....
Girls I miss you but due to net problems I don't know how much I cna be around...and now it is bro problem!Hugs!Hope to speak more tomorrow!
Sorry Vero-chan ! I know! I hope that in the week -end you will go somewhere and have lots of fun and rest! NO! Promise my that you will DO that!
Bye! Kisses!
boo! hey thre everyone =D
on stoptazmo.com they have the manga, but it's still not finished ^^
Hi Simo-chan ^^ yeah,pool...dreaming...I have to work *sigh*
Hello! How is everyone? Ohhh geez there is no one here! Were is everybody?
I guess they are of to the beach or pool! ^_^ is sooo hot these days that you can fry an egg on someones bald head ^_~
Ey, that's it ! Bye, Kisses!
hmm..I should read that manga, hehe, do you know a site where I can read it from, like scanned versions in english?
I'm glad,inochikyo,that your friend decided so
lol,that manga is about sex. It's about how and what,it's not hentai, it's more like instruction and suggestions to the sex life. And it have many interesant facts inside. For sure it's better than what they teach you in the school,or asking parents hehe
inochikyo I am happy she changed her mind.Your words are indeed true she would have felt dirty and got to hate herself if she did soemthing like that!
And you know what in reality peopel get to suffer more in their life then being happy and when you find happiness well you have to fight to keep it!
Wish her good luck and the best!
Hugs!
AH, Thanks for the advice! *hugs to all* ^__^ I told my friend something like that to. And just to let you know, she decided not to bring the subject up, because she wants to wait until after marriage or if she's dating a guy for at least 2 years and she really loves him! So, this is great, that she's given up the idea, cause it's not right, and I know is she went through with it, she would hate herself so much and would feel really dirty. But she'll be Ok, she'll make it through. I guess she was just thinking she should because she's trying to mend her broken heart. But I can feel she'll be just fine, Thanks again for the advice. It's tough on her right now and she's hurting lots but she'll make it through, no matter what life brings, you always do. ^___^ (hmm..maybe I should read that manga..)
Ohh I know what you mean about parents annoying us.My dad is home,on holiday so he is so annoying.He bothers me everytime,he is liek haunting me.Use the bike a little more,make osme exercises,don't stay at the computer you'll get sick and so on.You know I like it when they have the oportunity to relax and they have some free tiem but when they have too much it gets annoying for me.
Hmm is it good that manga^_^?
New wall,uhh I can't wait to see it!And also what can I say we seem to think the same...I am glad that you agree with me concerning inochikyo's friend problem!
Huglles!
I totally agree with Mira-chan. Your friend really shouldn't do sex with a guy, she doesn't love,and he wants to use her,so he will not look lame in the eyes of his girlfriend.Hmm,maybe she should read the manga Futari Ecchi, it's about sex and when two virgins have sex at first time,it don't turn out well...I think man can't learn too much from it too...Oh,well,it's my opinion ^^'.
Hi
How are you?
So sadly I didn't get that job,but I'm not upset,I will try more...
Now I'm working on my wallie, editing, and playing RPG
If my mother wouldn't bother me so much,it would be ideal summer *sigh*
emily85 hey there sweety^_^!Nice to meet you I am Mira-chan^_^!I feel that you are totally right being sad isn't productive at all^_^!You have a healthy way of thinking!
Simo-chan I already miss you!i am expecting for oyu!And well don't be to shy no one will bite here.About Di well she ins't in this group but I will say hello to her from your part too^_^!Hugs!
inochikyo now sweety you are joking right!?I mean what strange idea.Well I will probably tell her something like this "you haven't even kissed and you are thinking of sex!That is a very strange way of thinking,really!I really don't want to seem harsh but get a grip on yourself.How can you speak about sex like a typical issue my dear?Because of people that speak of sex that way there are today so many children without parents,so many abortions,so many deseases.
And most of all sex is a total different thing from love.Think at the consequences before you act!Not only pregnecy is the problem here but other things too.
And really at your age 15 don't you think that you are still too little for that.Starting your sexual life when your body isn't fully developped(all tough it seems) it may affect it also and not only that but also it will affect you psichologically speaking!
So make the diffrence between sex and making love....there is a great differnece.You know I am sick and tired of hearing everyone speaking of sex and making love like they have the same meaning.Sex you can do it with whomever you please,feelings and romance and other things aren't important,it is something made because of instincts,that makes us seem more like animals.Making love implies feelings and romance etc.And also you don't do sex just for curiosity!You are speaking of a serious thing like it was nothing,like you are going for your usual walk in the morning.
And also you are a virgin and making sex with another virgin isn't also to good.I mean you'd better look for a more experienced guy that knows how to handlethings in this situation!
Well you know where I heard the idea "You don't do sex just for curiosity" at a guy!Even guys think,altough they don't show it,that it is much better when feelings are included and that is.Irrational girls that start their love life like that(so to say) they get to be considered easy girls(not to say other words).Guys usually like to struggle a little for the girls they like and not to have them drooling over them so easy,they also need their space.As for your friend there are so many women that can teach him everything with some money but it would also be better for him to be honest with his girl and to leave everything in the hands of their feelings!You know when 2 persons love each other things can get solved step by step.So all this hurry is simply just stupid.Ohh and I also forgot to say that you don't do sex also because your friends already did that!By the way girls that start their love life so early,before they mature get to become older earlier than others.Really I know girls of 17years that started their sexual life earlier and they look older than a woman of 25 years not to mention that their bodies get to look different too!
Well it is your life!But what makes you think that it will work being with the one that is your friend....even your relation will definately change.Friends don't have sex with each other just like that!How would you feel seeing his girlfriend after that and knowing that you were with him!Sex isn't something that you plan!When you love someone it just happens to want more and so all comes like normal but now you aren't speaking about normal things.
Making love for the first time it is supposed in every girl's dream,to be something beautiful with the person they love and not with the first one who comes.
By the way when you say "I have just one life" you should take better care of it.Why are to hurry so much(hurrying too much will make things worse)!And by the way there is plenty of time to experience love/sex !Stop thinking at stupid things if you ar thinking at your own good.And self-esteem and pride are also important don't let a guy trat you like an object or something!
.So don't act irrational and don't ruin your friendship with this guy!
I think the others girls around will agree with me and even guys if you ask they will agree!"
That was what I would for sure say to my friend.Hmm if one of my bestfriends would have also come with a problem like this I think I would have beat them,seriously!Well I hope your friend will get into her senses.By the wya I haven't fully understood what you were speaking...about one of your friends who has a friend that asked her that?Well I hope my message helps!
Hugs minas!See ya soon!
hey yall, how yall doing? ^__^ Came by, cuz my friends friend has a little problem and I want to see what advice you gals can give her! This is what she said..in an email
My male friend asked me to have sex with him but he has a gf, he says he wants to learn how to have sex so he'll know how to when the time come to actually have sex with the girl he loves and I want to know too, but I didnt tell him yes, that I would, I told him he might get me pregnant. I want to bring the subject up again and yes lets have sex but I dont want him to use me to learn and I want to lose my virginity to someone I love, the only good thing, is that we're friends, so if we have sex, it wouldnt affect us much, what should I do, a part of me says yes, have sex, you only live once, take some risks, but then again I dont want to,please help, if this is relevant somehow, he's 17 and Im 15, and I've never had a bf or even been kissed.
Hello everyone! Vero-chan congrats,if you have found a summer job! Good work!
Mira, I'm sorry for not saying Hello,I'm really bbiiiiiiiiiiippppp. Sorry! Not gonna happned again! Mira i want to come and see you but i don't know when,I'm really bUssy, I will phone you and tell when!
I don't know if Diana-chan is here but if she is- Hello, How are you?
Girls, i have to go, Kisses! Hugs
hi, i'm emily n i'm new in this group.
mmm, question of the week, eh? based on personal experience, i try not to focus on my hurt coz whenever i think about it, i just feel self-pity. i dont want that, so i would spend most of my time doing stuff i like: hanging out with friends (slumber party, trying out new restaurants), watching anime & movies, reading, drawing, etc. i do think & reflect about it sometimes, but i try not to blame myself or anyone for what had happened. negative thoughts are so...unproductive, coz in the end, being negative would never allow me to achieve anything.
does that make sense to anyone ^_^ ?
krys07 hey there!Thank you sweety!Well what can I say it really was one one of the best...and I succeeded for the first tiem in my life,I guess,not to get sick!When I was little,you know how kids are eat like everything,I kinda poisened myself so I had some problems with eating because of that...I mean I like eating but some food made me sick!Ah but now it is Ok!
Gii it seems so quiet at this hour!
Well in a few words it was a very nice trip...full of adventures...ahh it is kinda hard to find my words but I will try little by little in telling you the details^_^!
How about you?Any plans?
Hugs!See ya soon!
welcome back mira-chan!
how's the trip?...
oh yeah,..it's stated there...
well...welcome back again...
take care...
Ohh my Vero-chin I definately have to leave you a message!I missed you so much....okay I actually missed everyone!
Hmm still looking for a job or did you already find it...gambatene...my sweety!
Gomene minas for being really off the subject but you can imagine that missing about 2 weeks I really have so much to read and it is kinda tiring for the eyes so I will better ask you what is the topic these days^_^?
I had a great time on my trip by the way!Hugs!I'll coem back later!
*KaoriHime ~ no holidae for you too.. ;___; and you found a job.. wow.. congrats.. so what will you be doing then? ^^
*krys07 ~ yeah.. yeah.. i'll try have a small break for myself.. provided i can do that.. and the fact is.. is... is.. i cant do it.. ;__; work doesn't allow me to do that..
*lacusxxclyne ~ your quest is hard...
but i think that life still need to carry on.. i'm also sure that we will go
thru' alot of pain before we can start to really start thinking.. but all i
wanna say is that you should stop thinking of the past and start ur new life..
i'm sure that the slected guy in your life will comr to you.. it is just a
matter of time.. ^^ so to all gers here.. ayane wishes all of you for a sweet
and romantic romance.. <333
Hello ! How are you? Hy Vero-chan! I will try to give a answer to this week's question. Very carefully^_^, i'm kidding. Just trying to give a bit of joy,optimism because the question is in my opinion is very serious. I really don't know, you just have to move , this is life. The good, happy moments spent with him will always be in your memory. And that is why you have to move on, because of the happy moments. LIfe is short !
well it's just my point of view..but i'm sure there are other solutions for that problem..
anyway, kaori-chan, i'm sure they'll accept you in that job!
Hi *hugs* Maybe I already found a job, but I wont say anything,till I will be sure
Krys,you are right ^^
hmm...a hard question...and i'm not pretty good at this...but this is my view,...
well, i think you must try your best not to think about the thing that broke your heart into pieces even if it's hard...i know it's hard but ithink that's the best way to do it...and also, maybe if you find a new inspiration, maybe it will lessen the pain that caused your heart to go like that....
QUESTION OF THE WEEK
How do you move on with life when your heart has been torn to pieces?